I get few feedback and questions on how did I manage to train Alya to be on diaper free...
and the answer for that question is...
I don't really know! ahhahaha...
To be honest, I tried few tricks on her.. I am not so sure which one manage to crack some sense to her (so small also got sense already meh?) hehhehe
1. Tease her for not being able to do her 'business' in the toilet
2. Told her she is a clever girl if she can do her 'business' in the toilet
3. Told her she cannot go to school if she is still wearing diapers, since everyone at school not wearing diaper.. I gave example of geng bas sekolah
"Tgk, geng bas skolah mana ada pakai diaper, sebab tu boleh pegi school..."
4. what else ya.. I know I talk a lot of crap with her... (oh man... while writing this, I remembers more on the personality types that the trainer told me yesterday..man.. he is rite.. I am a popular sanguine... hahhahahah)
Ya, I told her stories on how clever someone is when he/she is no longer using diaper.. I told her that when people grow up, they won't be wearing diaper anymore, coz only babies does.. and I ask her whether she is a baby or a big girl... etc.. etc... yupp.. i made up a lot of stories... hahhahaha..
But nonetheless, all these wont be a success without the help of bibik.. who constantly tries to get Alya not wearing any diaper during the day.. Though she fails a lot, but she still tries.. and I guess, if she didn't constantly just take the risk of Alya terbocor... it might just take longer that expected.
I totally understands moms who wanted to get their kids out of diaper, but when we are working, it is much harder to do since we have less control of our kids.. I agree with Filla, even she trained Kasih to be on diaper free, but during the day, when she send Kasih to nursery, Kasih will be put on diaper again, hence the miscommunication, and definitely Kasih will find it hard to understand, when should she be on diaper, and when she should... etc...
But again, I know we want them to learn... but... they need to learn though our guidence, and of course help. But never forget, let them take their time to learn.. do not force... things will take place.... one fine day....so, be happy ok?
Happy Wednesday people!