The One with the Maid...oh Maid...

Maid saya tak sihat harini... actually dari malam td makanyer saya telah mengambil cuti tergempar harini utk menghandle princess dan juga prince2 kat umah nieh (yer. .. princess and price sangat katanyer)....

Dah bawak bibik pegi clinic pg td.. blood pressure ok, sugar level ok.. cuma dier nyer nadi cam lari skit..
tapi doktor kata macam normal to some ppl...

dia dok muntah2... i think probably dier masuk angin pasal she refuse to eat...
arituh kan i ada citer i kene cir bir tuh kan... the next day.. bibik kata dier cam nak muntah..
so.. ari ahad malam tuh dier tak nak makan sbb dier cakap nanti muntah..
i dah suh dier makan gak at least roti ke apa ke kan.. biar alas perut...

so smalam senin i pegi keje i tak tau la dier makan ke tak..
balik rumah my neighbour ada kat rumah i.. tgh tengokkan budak2 pasal bibik kata dier 'pusing'
as in pening la tuh... so i asked her apa dier buat arini and makan apa seme...
she didn't answer my question tp dok cakap dier pusing... sabo je mana i nak tau apa nak bg kat dier to ease pening and loya tuh..

then i tanya dier, dier makan tak.. lambat2 baru cakap.. makan ptg sama anak2...
i pegi dapur tgk nasik takder.. so i asked again.. "kamu makan apa? nasik takder pun"
she said.. "iya... makan roti aja.."

i cakap.. kalau tak makan confirmla masuk angin lagi la nak muntah and pening..
so... i sort of paksa dier makan... dier amik 2 kpg roti and i paksa dier minum hot drinks.
terkumat2 nak abiskan.. dah tuh i suh dier telan panadol 2 bijik and suh tido...

pagi td kol 7 i kejut dier suh mandi... and siap kang antar alya g skolah antar dier skali g klinik...
dier cakap tak larat sbb pusing... i paksa gak.. abis kalau jumpa dr pon tak nak...
i mana tau nak bg dier ubat apa kannn?? then i suh dier makan nasik (her breakfast everyday adalah nasik)..
i siap buatkan milo panas utk dier makan ubat... (meh puji i baik cepat..:P)

pas makan secubit kot.. dier buang nasik tuh and bgtau i dier tak larat kunyahh!!
arrrgghhh... tertekan aciiiiikkkkk dek noooonnnn! sabo lg takper.. suh minum milo..
dier cakap tak lalu bau milo... saboooooooo lah lg kannnnnn.... dah kalau makan tak nak minum taknak..
camner nak ada energy bibikkkk oiiiii....

pas kene lecture ngan i suh minum gak.. dier minum and makan ubat and tido lg..
pas i siapkan alya.. buat breakfast seme..i kejutkan suh pegi klinik..
tuhla Dr bgtau takder apa cuma Dr kata nadi dier tak berapa betulll tp nothing to do with heart attack ker haper la..
it could be normal to some ppl (ada Dr kat sini yg bley comment?)

Dr bg ubat tahan muntah... suh makan ubat and eat after that.
balik... i siap masak bubur utk dier(dah katanyer tak larat kunyah nasik kannn).. buat sup.. and siap steam ayam...
(sayang tul i kat bibik i kannnn... muahhahahahha).... dah suh dier makan ubat...
pastuh i siap masak siap hantarkan makanan ke bilik (eh, bila tulis nieh cam adakah u ols rasa i yg mcm bibik plak? ahhaha)
and guess what???? She said... "tak lalu makan Puan..bau bubur nya saya mau muntah"

buburku yg tak laku ittewwww... huwaaaa

the soup to compliment the bubur...


steam chicken.. yg di potong2 kecik pastuh...

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! kalau u ols jd I ... nak marah ke camner?
abis kalau tak nak makan tak nak minum.. apakahhhhhhhhh??? camner nak sihat camtuh??

oh sungguh tertekan I ok.. sungguh degil tauuuuuuwwwww...
nie bukan i dera bibik... tapi bibik yg dera I....
sungguh terdera perasaan menahan sabar...

dah tu td... dah dier asek terasa nak muntah..
i siapkan satu baldi and lapik siap2 ngan kitchen tissue so that kalau termuntah tak ler terpercik kan..
and ampun... i telah rasa kesabaran i menipis... bila dier dah muntah dalam baldi tuh dier tak pegi basuh pon baldi tuh...
yer.. i know dier rasa lemah.. purpose baldi adalah emergency... dah siap muntah pegi la toilet cuci and cuci diri sendiri ..
kumur ke apa ke kan.. ini tak dier biar je...

sorry.. masa i perasan dier tak basuh tuh i pegi bilik and bgtau dier..
dier tak nak mkn.. tak nak minum.. macamana nak baik and kalau macamni mmg sajer carik penyakit ..
and i told her suh get herself up... pegi freshen up.. mandi ke apa ke.. terjelepuk mcm tuh kalau aku bukan lg baik makin pening ada lahhhh... and i told her... dah muntah basuh baldi and prepare utk kalau nak muntah lg...abis takkan tuh pon i nak buatkan kan...
rasa cam terlebih la pulakkkkkk kan...

i know dier tak sihat... and i know how it feels like to muntah2..
i had 3 times at least, that kind of experience for at least the first trimester of my pregnancy..
so I know... and i prepare the meals, and also the tools to ease her.. base on my experience..
but... masa i pon.. i pegi wash sendiri the baldi.. i took the effort to eat and drink..
walaupon i minum air masak kuar air masak gak ok...

u ols rasa .... i rasa bengang nie.. mcm tak berperikemanusiaan ker?
seriously... i dah rasa bengang and tension sbb kedegilan dier tuh..
i dunno what to do...:((

helllllpppppp!! kang i makan org plak kannnnggg!

The One With the another weekend

Hellooooo... morning all...

eventhough today is monday, adalah tidak monday blues, despite jari adalah burned.. and kene cir bir dari sabtu... bagus kan? hahahahhahaha...

org kata, mulakan lah hari dengan senyuman.. maka pagi2 saya bgnkan en zamzari telah memberi senyuman kat dier... taktau dier nampak ke tak sbb dier ala2 mamai gitu kan.. tapi takper la.. saya budget senyuman tuh paling manis la pagi2 tu.. muahahhaa.. tuh kot sbb mood adalah baik saje.. hehehhehe... berkatttt org kata..:D

Anyway, how's your weekend? Mine was good despite jari ter'burned' atas kepandaian sendiri, and kene cir bir... eh macam dah mentioned td kan? hahaha... attention seeker mmg camtuh... maafkan je la yer..

we went to a kenduri kat Bangi... saper budak MMU or dok dengkil tau kot... Klinik Zalfah.. ha.. Dr Zalfah and Dr Sabri nyer anak nyer wedding la kitorang pegi... Noo.. bukan kitorang baik ngan Dr tuh.. tapi Dr tuh.. kawan mama... so.. kitorang bawak ler Mama pegi kenduri tuh...

Cantik sangat setting kenduri tuh.. cam dalam taman pon ada...makanan pon setaaapp... tak caya tgk je la pinggan i ni haa.... PENUHHHH ok! hahahahha.. pastuh hasilnya balik sakit perutttt! padan muka.. tapi yg pelik tuh... en zamzari tak kene la plak... tensiii.. tapi ok gak.. kalau tak berebut toilet.. lg susahhh!

Pinggan I... ha skang sila la percaya!

The fooods...! setapp!

Siap ada gulai kawah.. actually, ulam2 pon ada...

Ok alya, jom camwhore!

ngan Adam plak...

Aishh....

Mama, ayah and pak ngah. toksah tanya gambo en zamzari.. takdooo...

Our table, from far...

Bunga kat table kitorang.. cantik kan?

Balik dari kenduri tuh.. Mama stayed at our place... sebagai menantu yg baik.. i pon ingat nak prepare la some desert kan.. bukan susah pon.. nak buat bread pudding je (recipe dari cik Myra)... tapi kan... i kan bijak pandai.. hahaha.. pas buat gula hangus tuh.. dengan cerdik nyer i amik sudip buat kacau td.. tiup2 pastuh calit ngan jari nak rasa ala2 masak menda lain tuu.. muahahhaha.... terus ter'burned' la jari I nie ha... terus bukak air paip and lalukan kat air tuh... sambil curse diri sendiri sbb pandai sangat.... huhuhuhuhu.... hasilnyer.. timbul la gelembung air yg besooo... sekian terima kasihhhh! budak pandai mmg camtuuuu...:P

hasil tgn yg terbakoo..

mmg terbaik kan? yg keliling merah tuh ala2 pedih lah gak..

tp, i teruskan jugak usaha buat bread pudding tuh... seb baik hasilnyer ok... dah abis ponn... huhuhuhu.. kot tak lg rasa nak ketuk kepala kat dinding... bengong tul I nieh..

ni ler bread pudding yg makan tuan!

Since mlm sabtu tuh i dah start kene diarhea... so siang ahad tuh.. en zamzari cakap takyah masak... pasal i dah lembik dah asek ke toilet je... seb baik bibik dah masak utk budak2... en zamzari makan apa sajer lah yg available yer... i plak.. makan maggi ayam jee... hahahahha... senang.. dan setappp!

ptg tuh.. dah rasa ok skit... walaupon masih pegi toilet each time i masuk makanan dalam mulut.. tapi cam tetiba datang semangat nak try buat shepard pie version Starbucks.. I've been eating that Shepard Pie bila pegi Starbucks.. and dok pk2 apa la recipe dier nyer inti nie... and konon2 pandai.. i try la buat.. ikut rasa dari lidah and tekak i nieh lah kan..

pastuh utk crust dier.. i amik recipe dari internet jer.. tung tang tung tang kat dapur (cam yo yo je kan)... siappppppp! pastuh mashed potato tak cukup.. so i buat sebelah mashed sebelah tutup ngan pie crust.. ahhahahahahha.... hasilnyer.. en zamzari cakap setaaaapppp! rasa dier sama cam yg kat Starbucks tuhhh... YEAYYYS! cuma crust nyer lembik skit.. sbb apa? sekali lg i pandai.. lupa bakar crust tuh dulu.. ahhahahah.. takperla.... selamat dah dalam perut kannn? korang nak ke recipe? kalau nak nanti I tepek ok.... tp ini recipe i main teka2 and campak2 ok... kalau u ols nyer lain.. jgn saman I ok..:D

My version of Shepard Pie...

i buat jugak steak, tp ter'DONE'. En zamzari suka medium well.. tapi i dah buat terdone.. tak abis 2 ketul tuh.. takper.. nanti potong2 hiris wat sandwich... pandai ler i alter kang...

Steak 2 ketul yg done. hahahah...

tak cukup tuu.. i sempat plak try 2 different recipe for choc chip cookies.. sungguh gatal... walaupon dah ada recipe yg confirm setapp.. tapi.. nak gak gatal try recipe lain kan.. hasilnyer... dedua setap gak.. tapi en zamzari cakap... the old recipe lg setap utk yg dark choc tuh.. pastuh skang padan muka... kene makan cookies2 tuh.. muahahahha...:P

eh.. baru i perasan.. entry i arini asek citer masak/makan kan? hahaha.. ampun.. mood ke dapur kembali....

tapi takper.. I akhiri entry nieh.. ngan gambo I tangkap dari kete... serious struggle nak amik gambo nieh pasal dedua kete tgh bergerakkk....

cun kannnnnn? cepat sape rasa nak kawin skang and buat camni angkat tgn!

Eh, ada plak gambo dier kannn? Nie gambo pas berusaha potong kete pengantin td tu...

The One With His birthday.

Happy birthday Baby..

I hope you've enjoyed the celebration that was planned last minute, by me.. hahahhaa.. sorry.. I was busy cracking my head on what special things to prepare for your birthday when I realize that..

"heyy.. this is not my birthday.. this is yours!"

hahahaha.. basically, i think i planned for things that I think would be nice.. but nice for me lah... itula masalahnyer kan.... well.. you know.. we, the wives (or u may call us your bitches sometimes - ops, no offence tho!), wants to prepare or plan something really nice for you, heads over hills to prepare something nice (nice, in our way, of course! hehhehe).. but i guess, we ended up feeling sedih.. naper la our hubbys tak gembira with all the things we prepared, or buat2 gembira + appreciate our work...

daaannnnnnng! after 12 years.... baru nak realize? lembab btul i nieh kannnnnn... but again, better late then never! muahahahhaha...

we skipped the normal fancy dinner, we went for coffee, eat at the hawkers stall... but doing the 'normal' unfancy things..with the love ones, having the 'gossips', is nice actually, kan? haaha.. but, we can always go to the fancy dinner one of these days.. hehehehhehe...

we skipped malls... we stayed in instead... had great time 'catching up' with each other.. watch lame no brainer movies.... well, it was really nice... kan?

tho it was not a super-duper-great-as in-all-expensive-event-thigy (hehehhe) I really hope you enjoyed your day with the plan that I made.

whatever it is.. i just want you to know that I love you, so much...

Happy 32nd birthday love...

I love you!

The early birthday cake, ordered from Ila from Rizq cakes.

Budak2 yg tak sabo nak makan cake...

Along yg blom mandi... adam yg dah mandi...

me with the kids, at Mama's house. seme belum mandi kecuali adam.

our small family. seme belum mandiiii kecuali adam termasuk lah birthday boy... abaikan perut i ok..:P

The pressie.. arituh pegi takder stock, seb baik dapat juga...

niceee kan?

and owh... ni pon pressie that comes together with the package too... muahahhahahahhaha

The One With the weekend at UK

No... not that UK... I mean UK as in Ulu Kelang.. hehehe..
Best kan kitorang.... kampung kat Ulu Kelang je... place where Daddy has spend his childhood, and the rest of his live...
before kitorang kawin lah.. tapi pas kawin pon dok situh dah for a year... eh.. apa nieh melencong plak citer..

Kalau korang nak tau... my kids and water.. adalah seperti isi dah kuku.. ker ada yg lebih mesra dari tuh?
tak tau nak cakap... dari Alya, Aish and Adam.. seme tak bley jumpa air... confirm jakun!!

Knowing that fact, Mama bought them the ready-made swimming pool...
so bila balik kampung Ulu Kelang jeee.. itula activity derang...
bagus kannnn..... sampai kecut2 jari seme pon takper....

opss... lupa plak... gambo2 nieh banyak yg sexy2 yer...
ada yg bogel lg.. so kalau ternampak apa yg tak patut nampak.. hammmmpuuuunnn!
ehehehehhehe...

nak tgk betapa derang nieh jakunkan air? haaaa.. sila silaaaa....

isk... ni sexy ker seksa? berketakkk peruuutt!

cam dugong pon ada anak aku nieh..

mari berendam sampai kecut2..

suka gambo adam ni... walaupon blur tp suka gakkk

budak gigi 6 batang!

Si abang kurus

Cucu gembira... granny and grandpa po happy sama... eehheheh

The One with the Mandom Friday..

Everytime I baca kisah Norma dari Moon, I can't help myself... akan mesti rasa sedih.... tak dapat dibayangkan kepedihannyer... kita nieh cuma merasa sedih... org yg menanggungnyer.. tah macam mana tah lg kan? bak kata pepatah... berat mata memandang.. berat lg bahu yg memikul...

semalam borak ngan moon... mmg betul kan moon.. apa yg berlaku... terlalu banyak hikmah dan kesedaran... bukan saja utk norma and talib.. tapi utk kita seme jugak...

the story struck me.. that i need to appreciate every moment in life.. appreciate org2 yg kita sayang.. and sayangkan kita... selagi kita masih mampu... buatlah yg terbaik...:(

so, balik karang... salam, peluk cium lah suami anda... mintak maaf banyak2 kalau ada buat silap (mesti ada nyer la kan?)... let him know.. that despite everything... dialah lelaki terutama dalam hati kita... and tell him you love him so much.. yupp.. gonna do that... walaupon dah selalu bgtau... doesn't mean takyah bgtau lagik kan?

chenta hati hamba...

ambik lah masa borak dengan anak2.. biarpon anak yg masih kecik yg tak bleh cakap lg... trust me, they do understand... take time to listen to their story... i can assure you.. mesti kadang2 you will feel like.. ya Allah... dah besar budak2 nieh.. macam2 derang nyer citer... hehehhe... thinking of them makes me smile.. each and every kids aren't the same... take time with them.. and tell them you love them...

Ni la activity kami.. dah takder masa sangat.. mlm2 pon jd main bubble dalam bilik.. aci? tergolek2 adam

and jgn lupa our parents... they have been with us... since the day we were born... sampai la kita dah tua cam skang nieh... still... tetap bersama kita through thick and thin... skang kita dah ada anak (buat yg ada anak lah), kita tau camner perasaan sayang kat anak tuh kan... mcm tuh lah parents kita.. so.. appreciate them... selagi hayat di kandung badan...

and also... all our loving frens around us.. i know how hard it is to keep seeing each other, especially bila kita dah ada banyak commitment.. and also work never fail to keep us busy.. but i guess, true frens will understand.. and true frens takkan kecik ati kalau kita tak sempat jumpa derang... because they know.. they are always in our heart... they are always being remembered by us... and whenever the time comes... spend quality time with them.. be it on the phone.. over messanger... FB... over coffee... or simply anything lah.... i bet they know... you care.. and love them....

huhuhu.. sorry yer..pagi2 jumaat dah emo...

if i haven't said it enough..
if i haven't said it out loud...
today.. i am saying it out..

I LOVE YOU.. so much!!

happy Friday peeps!

The One With the Special Entry

Salam kepada semua. Truthfully saying, I do not know how to start this. Like, seriously.. semuanyer terlalu sedih utk di ungkap..

My dear friend Munirah aka Moon, sedang menghadapi kesulitan sekarang.. kesulitan yg bagaimana... keluarganya di duga dengan dugaan yang perit.

Sungguh, I am really not good in this.. sbb setiap kali teringatkan kisah Norma ni, I can't help myself from being sad... sedih...

Norma adalah isteri kepada adik Sutan (adik ipar Moon) dan Norma telah disahkan oleh Doktor, menghidap cancer stage 4. Mungkin hari2 kita ada dengar cerita org menghidap cancer, tetapi kisah Norma touches my heart..so deeply.. because she is a young mother, who just delivered a cute baby boy, and did not have the chance to even breastfeed the baby, let enough to take care of the baby...:((

Lepas jer bersalin, Norma mengadu sakit kepala yg teruk, bermacam ikhtiar dilakukan sampai ada yg kata kene benda2 halus.. tapi pada satu peringkat.. Moon dan family bawak je Norma pegi hospital and that's when... semua cerita duka bermula..

Doktor mengesahkan Norma ada brain tumor and she needs to undergo the surgery. She went through few rounds of surgery (5 times to be exact), and later, we were told that the tumor was actually cancer.. and she was diagnose with brain cancer stage 4.

sorry.. nak sambung tulis nie pun susah... sedih.. mengenangkan nasib Norma yg terlantar sakit.. pasti kesedihan dia tak dapat digambarkan bila dia tak boleh membelai baby Rafiq..seperti ibu2 yg lain.. :((

Gambo Norma peluk Rafiq sebelum surgery

Waktu ni Norma dah undergo surgery.. terlalu rindu nak jumpa Rafiq..:((

apapun, I am so proud of her husband... kalau you guys kata Seth Tan tuh best giler... i've seen better! And ini bukan drama... Talib sentiasa ada di sisi Norma.. jaga Norma, bagik semangat kat Norma, sanggup lakukan apa saja utk Norma... tanpa kire penat lelah.. berkejar ke sana sini.. pegi keje.... berulang pegi spital, tido kat kusi spital... tak payah citer la seme tuh.. mmg Talib akan utamakan kebajikan Norma, lebih dari diri sendiri... so if you said Seth Tan tu best... Talib nie apa? super best kan? Syukur... kene berterima kasih banyak2 pada mama Talib yg mendidik Talib jd org yg bertanggungjawap macam ni...

Talib bg peransang kat Norma... bg kata2 semangat..

after surgery... Talib balik dari keje terus carik Norma..

Gamba yg meruntun jiwa I.. huwaaaa... this is real life Seth Tan!

The plan for Norma is now, to continue looking for alternative way, alternative medication... seperti kata Moon, selagi hayat di kandung badan, they will fight this! Sama2 lah kita semua berdoa semoga segala urusan mereka dipermudahkan... semoga Norma dan keluarga berada di bawah lindungan-Nya selalu... selagi terdaya.. kita harus berusaha.. selebihnya.. kita serah kan pada Yang Maha Kuasa.... semoga dengan doa2 kita semua, dapat mempermudahkan urusan mereka... amin...

Norma

If you guys would like to know the full story of this sad episode of Norma's life... boley baca kat sini..

This special entry is dedicated to them, and I hope sesiapa yg sudi menghulurkan bantuan ikhlas, bolehlah menyalurkan sumbangan anda ke :

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