The One With the new hello

 It has been the longest time since I wrote anything.

So this post will be like what? New hello?

Welcome back?

Let's see..

The One With the Yang Adam Harriss 7th Birthday

Throwback entry.

Adam aka Adik was born in March, mummy nak post bulan April... sebulan lewat, ada apa hal kan? ahahhaa.. mummy bab2 post lambat mmg biasaaaaa... and sangat hebats..

Hmm.. bila citer pasal Adik ni.. too many mixed feelings ada.... dari kecik my close friends cakap, finally ada sorang anak ko muka cam ko.. ahahahhaa.... yeah, adik punya kulit a bit tan compared to kak long and abang ... but now since semua dah bersukan seme lebih rentung dari mummy.. ni kes mummy tak nak ngaku kalah nak kata dia putih jugak  kahkahkah....

Adik je sorang darah dia sama dengan Mummy.. anak2 lain seme geng daddy.. maybe sebab tuh Adik pon baik hati (ya Allah ni entry Adik ke entry Mummy perasaaaaannnnnnnn??? confuseee la pulak ).. Adik mmg selalunya helpful, observant... tanpa suruh dia akan buat sesuatu... and of course kalau kene suruh dia surely akan buat...

and sebab tuh jugak.. abang ngan kak long selalllluuuuuuu la buii adik suruh macam2.. geram betul mummy... 

Adik ni sohek gak, macam mummy.... kalau adik kene marah... dia akan blank terus... tau2 dia nangis je kang.... so kalau nak tegur nak ajar ke apa ke... jangan ler tinggi2 suara... terus la nangis or dia akan tunduk bisu macam batu keras terus.. ehhehe.. lain anak, lain peel nya kan?

Perangai Adik yang macam daddy.. biasanyer adik akan kemas balik barang dia amik, and letak semula kat tempat dia amik... observant.... nampak orang tgh susah nak buat something dia cepat2 tolong... 

Adik dia macam ada aura dia tersendiri... orang2 yg baru jumpa dia pon akan rasa dia ni happpyyyy je orangnya.... ramai suka cakap2 dengan dia sebab dia mcm always happy.... dari kecik dia camtuh... 

Adik cepat gemuk.. tapi cepat gak kurus.. kalau jd potato couch je... boroi and tembam lah pipi.. tapi dah start main.... kurus la balik..... 

tapi, walau macamana pon... Adik will still be my darling Adik, despite dah ada 2 orang adik lagik skang... ahahahhaa... 

Happy 7th Birthday Yang Adam Harriss!!

Semoga Adam akan dapat semuanya yg terbaik ... di permudahkan segala urusan.. dan sentiasa berada di dalam rahmat dan lindungan Nya...

We love you!       

The One With their new haircut

My twin babies skang pandai nak melaram... sabar je... dah tuh sorang2 perasan... tah anak sape tah ni suka perasan... tak tau laaaaa... kihkihkih..

rambut derang dah panjang, so derang dah bising2 nak suh mummy bawak g potong rambut.... derang mmg biasa potong rambut kat Neesha's Bangsar... reason being, senang time bebudak kumon.. sekali hantar....

First time pegi sini, just because it is convenient.. tapi pastuh rasa mcm wahh.. barber kat sini power la dia potong rambut sebijik ikut sample yg di tunjuk... memula skali Adam tunjuk gambar Ronaldo punya rambut macam ni.....

and result rambut adam...... ok kan? sharp la dia potong jadi ok...

aish pon dia potong elok... tapi aish suka tukar2 style.. tetiap kali pegi dia akan survey dulu dalam kedai.. tgk gambar mana yang being displayed yg dia suka, then dia cakap nak potong macam tu... so far, derang mmg happy with the result.

ni afiq aqil pon sama... tunjuk gambar no 20 kot tak silap i.... masa potong rambut lg dah senyum2 perasan .... dalam hati mcm berkata2...

"confirm laa hensem pas siap nii....."

tak caya? haaa.. nengok gambo derang senyum simpul time kene potong rambut ahhahahahahahha

dah siap potong, masing2 mintak mummy amikkan gambar... kihkihkih.. anak sapeeeeee laaaaa suka selfie niiiiiiiiiiii??????

masuk kete siap afiq poyo pakai spek... as usual, kalau pakai spek itam tuh ala2 menambahkan hensem la kot kan? ni dari adam lg mcm tuu.... tak paham acik kenapaaaaa... :P

ok sape2 nak pi serbu kedai ni... nama dia Neesha's Salon. Jangan tak tau... KJ pon potong rambut kat sini tauuu..
arituh ada terserempak, dia bawak anak dia potong rambut... ahkak mampo senyum je laa.. nak ajak amik gambo muka berlengas balik keje....... takper lenkali jumpa lagik I amik gak gambo pastuh crop letak gambar i yg senonoh skit ahahahahahhaa...

The One With the unpleasant news

Banyak sangat benda berlaku lately, which somehow I rasa mcm ... macam apa ek? macam tak tau nak cakap... mungkin bila umur2 dah camni.. jiwa makin mellow, see things differently.

No, I am far from good.. my life adalah sangat biasa... yer.. biasa2 sangat dari semua segi.. but alhamdulillah, I am happy...
tipu lah kalau hari2 happy takder rasa sedih, takder rasa marah, takder rasa geram kan? tapi, tah la... bila umur dah banyak (hahaha.. tak nak tulis tua...:P) rasa mcm kalau keadaan camtuh and dok nak pk sangat pasal benda tu... nanti letih dia tuh mcm... restless.. letih berpanjangan..... so baik takyah la nak sesakkan kepala dengan macam2 hal... agak rasa boleh move on.. teruskan je lah takyah nak dwell over the not so happy things sangat..

I rasa, skang ni masa sanngggaaaattt laju... laju sampai rasa mcm, eh belum wat pape lg dah sampai ari jumaat.. eh, baru je rasa weekend lepas kata, nak buat benda ni... tau2 dah drag sampai another weekend. cepat sangat masa berlalu.... mcm tak terkejar....

bila mana masa tuh laju, decision making pon kene cepat... lagik lambat buat decision, lagik banyak benda kita hilang... and lagik urgent benda tuh jd.... and life will be more stressful, ye dak?

tapi, ada gak certain decision kita kene buat dengan sangat berhati.... biarla dia drag jauh mcmana pon, tapi biarla amik masa utk timbangkan satu persatu keputusan yg bakal kita amik tu... contohnya, leaving a life in the expense of someone else happiness.

kenapa i cakap camtuh? sebab i rasa, semua orang nak bahagia.. semua orang nak life best2 dengan orang2 yang kita sayang... setiap orang cakap

"I deserve to be happy"

tapi kan, kalau our happiness tuh, menyebabkan orang lain derita how? ye betul, semua yg berlaku ada sebab, ada hikmah.. tapi tuh la i cakap, decisions mcm ni, kenela pk lapan ploh juta kali....

bukan i nak cakap, i tak faham yg semua orang berhak dapat bahagia, tapi tuhla... bilamana kebahagiaan kita menjadi racun pada orang lain, i think kita kene step back one step, and think back... think hard!

i dah tulis banyak, tapi i rasa kalau i share, nanti ada pulak hati2 yg terluka.. jd takperla... biarla simpan sendiri... cuma pada pendapat i yg tak seberapa ni....

apa yg kita buat harini.. adalah cermin diri kita di masa hadapan..... if we live in happiness, tapi happiness kita tuh racun utk orang lain, and we do have a choice not to hurt other people, that is when i think sometimes.... taking time to think is the best..... 

let's make this world a better place to live!! eh, gitu.. :)

Peace no War...

 

The One With His Football Journey

Both my son - Aish and Adam loves football.. Aish has develop stronger interest in football... well maybe Adam too, but he is still too small or too cheeky to be serious in anything.. hehhehe..

Aish joined the SKBD FA early last year, and they have the training in school every Sunday...(or was it Saturday?, mummy dah nyanyuk....) Mula main pakai school shoes je... boots pon takder coz daddy said, dulu daddy pon main pakai kaki ayam je ahahhaha...

Since first day dia join SKBD FA, coach Siza panggil dia Gerard.. hell masa tuh mummy tak kenal lah kan sape Gerard tuh... until now pon coach Siza always call him Gerard... hope he will be as good as Gerard lah.. dah orang panggil dia tuh, doa kan tu? Aminnn..

Few months along the way, a mom announced that if nak join more intensive training, probably can go for tournaments too, boleh join another group that she created. Aish pon join jugak group tuh, and mulalah episode belajar dengan Coach Muz... Coach Muz trained him from zero, till where he is now... Thank you Coach Muz, for all your guidance and knowledge given to Aish and also Adam

Aish memang really into football. Kira kalau tagline Makan Bola, Minum Bola, Mandi Bola, Tidur Bola tuh, memang betul lah Aish mcm tuh... hallway rumah kitorang yg kecik tuh pon dia boleh lg dribble bola dari depan sampai ke dapur. Dari dapur pi depan plak.... nak antar pinggan lepas makan pon sempat lagik ngan bola.. pendek kata, kaki tuh dah tak berjalan mcm orang biasa dah... tersenget2... apa je dia jumpa kat jalan, seme dia nak sepak hahhahaha... bertabahlaaa....

End of last year... Aish joined the first international tournament in Bangkok. BSS Tournament, held in Bangkok Patana International School. Tapi sebab U8 punya category ramai jugak pasukan yang main, organizer change the venue to St Andrew International School.

It was a good experienced for them.. they lost only once (1-0) in group placing on 2nd day of the tournament, to the winning team. Team tuh kalau lawan mana2 team pun mesti kenekan team lawan sampai 8-0, 5-0 mcm tuh... time lawan derang ni... coach derang sampai tarik2 rambut stress sbb tak dapat nak score goal... we tried our best nak recover balik, tapi...let's just cut the story short, we lost 1-0 to them.... good experience!

This year, bulan March harituh they went to Hanoi for Hanoi Youth Football Tournament. They played even better this time.... even the locals support them.. parents2 local lain datang cheer for our team... this time for group placing we got no 2. Tapi, during QF, we lost on penalty shot out. nangis budak2 sebab sedih.. main sampai merah padam muka, until whistle blow still seri.. so kene la penalty shot out. 

Zaed, our goal keeper saved the first penalty kick.. really hebat! But at the end, they won by 1 point to us. sedih tgk muka kids, but all of us agreed that they have become better player.. that's the most important thing pun kan? Learning is a never ending process.

As for me, as long as he is passionate about this sport, I will try my level best to support. kalau dia nak main sports lain pon we try to support also. I guess, semua parents nak bg the best support to their kids interest kan?
 


 

The One With the Young Living Essential Oils

Hehehhe..... kalau tgk gambar2 ni... mesti korang cakap I giler kan?

hahahhaa.. percayalah... sesungguhnya ini bukanlah satu kegilaan.... hahahahhahahahaha.... ini namanya passion.... minat... tau tau tau? ahhahaha

hehehe.... En Zamzari pon dah pening ngan bini dia ni... malas dia nak cakap apa dah... biarkan je lahh....

For me, mmg best Young Living Essential Oils ni.... I am attracted to it mula2 because dengar cerita about how good it is... so I pun try lah beli the set... and start to use them... pastuh terus fall in love!

My kids love them too... malam2 derang yg rajin buh the mix... it helps them with their sleep, termasuk lah mcm skang kurang sangat2 lah demam sbb diffuse Thieves as immune booster, campur plak purification to purify the air, and RC to help their respiratory congestion. Alhamdulillah, it help to improves their body without relying too much on meds... which I think it is really good.

Besides that, banyak la lagi kegunaan dia for the whole family... Haritu being the clumsy me, boleh jalan2 tak nampak steps tak rata... bedebuk jatuh mcm nangka busuk.. ok tuh tipu, tapi terpelot lah .... sakit okeh tak boleh menapak pon.... En Zamzari pi urut tapi sakittt giler i tak tahan... last2 dia cakap, ni bukan urut ni meraba... baik raba benda lainn hahahahhahaha.. ngok betul!

So, i pun sapu lah Pan Away..... alhamdulillah.. esok pagi bangun dah boleh menapak tak sakit! My lutut (ye, I dah tua ada syndrome sakit lutut!) pun dah ok tak sakit2 lagik.... So tell me now... how la utk tak jattuh chenta dengan ini barangggggg???? baikkkkk punyaaa!! ahahhaha..

Pan Away tuh mmg both me and En Zamzari suka giler... sbb mcm kalau sakit terpeleot ke apa.. mmg pakai insya Allah ok.. satu lg WinterGreen, pun best..... lenguh kaki.... lenguh la mana pon sapu2.... insya Allah settle!

Banyak lagik oils2 lain yang sangat bagus.. citer pasal Oils ni, sampai minggu depan tak abis citer.. ahahhaha....

tapi kalau u ols nak tanya... tanya je okeh, nanti i reply..  dah kata passioonnnn.... harus lah rajinnnnnn! ahahhaha...

The One With her journey to become Princess Merida

Harini Alya pi Archery Tournament lagi (hahah teruk mummy tulis lagik... like, never ending kan?)
Bukan laa... goood for her lah kan... practise2.. pastuh pi tournament tgk ada improvement ke tak..

She started playing(playing ke?) archery ni last year...
she said, nak join archery lah.. padahal sebelum tuh suh dia join macam2 sports lain..
dia takder plak minat (kecuali swimming, sebab main air).. tetiba cakap nak join archery...
hm... daddy cakap since dia nak.. bagi je lah (does he even know what trouble he gets himself pasal ni?)

So last year, makcik ni pon join la archery...
dalam sebulan ke dua bulan tah ... coach suh dia tarik terra-band(ye ke eja terra band mcm ni?)..
pastuh coach dah suh dia upgrade beli bow .... keluar jugak la hijau2 kat muka mummy nak belikan bow ni..
tapi.. dah dia suka, we try our best lah kan nak support...

starting from then on...
dia dah start lah shoot using the bow and arrow...
I ols ingat mcm senang.. masya Allah susah sbb berat okeh bow ni segala..
sampai lebam2 tgn Alya masa mula2 tuh sbb belum pandai lg kan?
so, positioning tak betul lg... posture tak betul..
so asek la lebam2.... rasa kesian sangat.. tapi mummy2 senior lain cakap..
normal tuh..nanti lama2 akan okay...

comes Nov, she joined the very first tournament ...
dia cakap dia nervous.. mmg nampak lah nervous nya..
coach cakap she improves a lot, tapi masa shoot utk individual tuh..
dia tah.. nervous kot... but good experience and exposure..

her team won for one of the category..
good experience for her...
alhamdulillah...

banyak lagi benda nak kene belajar and improve...
hopefully, she will be a good archer one day nanti...

as of this tourney, dah a few jugak lah dia join..
every now and then, i told her... i want to see her personal score gets better in each tournament..
kalah takper, sebab experience dia tak sebanyak orang2 lain..
but her own personal score, kene be better each time...

so kita tgkk lah weekend ni....
maka mereput lah mummy kat tepi padang yg kepanasannnn ittewww...
bertabahlahhhhh...